How does one succeed in life?
15.06.2025 04:57
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Living to your full potential is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Is it ethical for same-sex couples to raise children?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Why didn't my ex fight for our relationship? He gave up so easily.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Making more friends is a goal.
Why do flat Earthers exist? Why can’t I see the Sun at night? Is it because Earth is not flat?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
What is something you saw while on an airplane that you couldn't believe?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Ask yourself:
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
That's it for today.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
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Do not set goals—set systems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Why didn’t Obito confront Kakashi after he witnessed him kill Rin?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Are there many people here who suffer from schizophrenia?
What I need from you?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Does not procrastinate.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.